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Do Not Celebrate Mother Day ! The meaning of Mother's Love

The Meaning Of Mother's Love By S.M Human beings endow with the nature that they want to be loved and to love . A man is loved by mother and he love his wife ! In this way he fills up his desire to be loved and to love . But the love from mother is only pure , intenseand true . Mother's love is withoutany interest , unconditional. You do not need topossess any qualityto be loved by mother rather your mother always love you whether you are poor or rich, nice or ugly , smart or rubbish , highly educatedor idiot . Unfortunately what you do not know , even people shouldnot know the harsh truth that your wife love you as you will fulfill her economic or emotional need , your friend loves you because he will feel alone and he has to play alone in the ground.Your family member love you because they want to help and to be helped as well as they want to fulfil their responsibility . Your neighbour praise you when you are at your heyday but they do not even know you when you are at critical time . We strive to forget these facts but cruel world never do. Their view of parenting is to offer love and encourage youto chart your own path . People get older , they come to see that parents love was unconditional. People are obsesed with dangerous personal freedom concept that is directly threatening human being nature to be disciplined and prefer to be directed when they have no knowledge on a problem they confront . This dangerous freedom concept has brought delicate family bond and ruined interdependent among people .In turn , stable structure of our society has been reshuffled . Hypocricy ,mutual respect and co-operation , to be honest without interest are being eliminated . Now people venture to use freedom against order of God let alone parents . No matter that You are religious or not religious , you believe in paradise or not pay homage to your mother and throw your freedom under the feet of your mother , consequently you will see paradise in this world. Because the paradise lies under the feet of your mother .When you know youhave unconditional love , there is no point in rebellion and no need to fear failure. your relationship with anyone might be crashed by a drawfish storm but your love with your mother will never be terminated ! The celebration of Mother day , in my opinion could be reverse effect in the places Where family custom is strong enough . It could create problem in family while you are giving extra importance for your mother in one day but your attention reduce in other days . This variation of your attention for mother due to celebration of the day could affect people in their psychology . Everywhere I look, there are ads marking Mother's Day. Mostly they conform to stereotype: flowers, jewelry, perfume. Not a lot of books. Not many computers. Few tools. Little that's useful. We don't go in for this nonsense in our household. Why? Because one day to celebrate mothers is ludicrously inadequate. In our house, mother's day is every day. Father's day, too. In our house, parents count. They do important work and that work matters. One day just doesn't cut for us.

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