[This is my first blog. I was always planning to start writing blogs, but never could actually start. One reason is , I wanted to write it in English, but it may be considered wrong to readers. I m not writing in Bengali because – firstly, I can express some things better in English than in Bengali, & secondly, I type real slow in Bengali. So I seek pardon to my readers for this fact.]
In Dhaka, its now a common fact to be in love. From our school life to our jobs, we are often in relationship. What we actually get from these? What we actually expect from our lover? Obviously the expectation of a boy & a girl is different. Do we know what the other one is looking for?
It is a tendency for girls to have a attraction to be in relationship. We have watched many love stories in movies, or in fairy tales, that the boy fell in love with the girl, so he proposes, & the girl agrees. Girls do agree. If the boy is alright. But is love so easy? & what happens when a girl agrees without loving the man? The relation becomes perfect to all. But the girl get bound in her own made ropes. The misunderstandings, breaking expectations, betrayal are just the result of this.
I don’t actually have an outline for what I want to write today. But I have a willingness to share our feelings, our knowledge about love and relationships, discuss hidden social problems with other people, with you. I wish we actually think & express our thoughts further.
Hope to write better in future. If I get response.