Nijer shomporke bola ar nijer dhol nije petano ekoi kotha,,nijei bujhe neo ami kemon Dupur 12ta baje shabnam api call diye bollo "bhaia,tui NSU er dike ay,ami okhane jacchi".Amar shekhane jete jete prai 2ta beje gelo,Bus e kore abdullahpur more theke kuril bisshorod shekhan theke riksaw kore NSU gelam,Jokhon riksaw theke namlam tokhon dekhlam ajib kisim er kisu item.NSU er main gate diye kisu chele dhukse.They are very good looking,very fashionable.Ebong etoi fashionable je taader pant er size o sheirokom,keo porese half pant abar keo porese three quarter.Keo keo abar kadhe jhuliyese drawing paper cylinder.To dekhe bujhte parlam je tara hoito architecturer student.Prothom prothom bujhte parini karon taader obak kora fashionable dresscode er jonno.Ami mone koresilam hoito security taader ke probesh korte debe na.But ja dekhlam purai bhinno,Taader ke id card check kore shei obosthatei bhetore dhukte dilo. (N:B: here i am not critisizing NSU).Dekhe kisukkhon hashi chapiye ekjon ke jiggesh korlam bhaia information office ta kondike?she dekhiye dilo,,Information office er shamne dekhi shabnam api onek boro ekti line e dariye ase.Form joma deyar jonno ajkei chilo last date.Api konorokom shotcut kore nijer form joma dite chole gelo,ami ar arekta chele boshe chilam entrance er thik shamne.Shekhaneo kisu ekoi kisim er item dekhlam but eber dekhlam ekdom modern type kisu item.Ekjon pc er headphone kaaner sathe laagiye,chokhe rongila choshma lagiye matha mosraite mosraite edik odike haattese,line dariye thaka ekta chele ke dekhlam Chikon chakon patla khan kintu t-shirtta etoi dhola je hatu sui sui.Mathai aabar jhuti bedhesen (ta chul na onno kisu allah e janen).Kisukkhon er moddhe entrance diye arekjon bishitto student shei HALF pant with t-shirt pora dhuklen shekhane,,Dekhe vabist mone holeo jokhon Symphony brand er mobile phone ber korlen ter jore jore bolte laglen "dosto,mui heini asi,tumi choila asho heine,kisu hoibe na,mui form joma dimuyene"..Tokhon e bujhlam eni barishailla public,dhakai shoddo agomon.............Ekhon main point e ashi,keno ami kothagulo tule dhorlam.Era to amar khaio na,poreo na,..tobe keno bolsi eder kotha..Ekjon school ba college chatro dekhlei amra bujhte pari ter dresscode theke.Most universitygulote kono specific dresscode nei tai je ja khusi porte pare.Amar kotha hocche,jodi kothao proper dresscode na theke ar ja khusi pore jawar shadhinota thake etar mane ki eta je ami shalinota bhongokari poshak pore jabo shekhane?ar tokhon jodi ami nijeke ekjon student bole dabi kori tokhon ami nijer studentship keo insult korsi ..Jehetu amra university going student amader dresscode onekkhangshe amader student hober identity bohon kore,Jemon ami ekta polo shirt ar fade jeans pore jodi jai eta ekta casual wardrobe ar eta shob khetrei mananshoi,Eta amar normal civil hobero porichoi dai ar student hobero.Ekhon ami jodi ekta chaayer tong e haalff pant pore pant er nara dulaite dulaite boli,mama ek cup cha deo ami student.shoyong shei dokan walao amake respect korbe na,bolbe adha pagol.Karon my dresscode is not correct.Beparta dekhe amar kase kharap legese eijonnei karon taara amar theke onek senior ar taader nijer kapor chopor porar ebong way of living er kono controll e nai nijer moddhe,Amar abbu jetake bole " gao geram theke dhaka ailam rongin choshma poira,jaa dekhmu emneo cholmu"..Ami amar familyr kase onek thankful karon taara amake je shishtachar ta diyechen bhalo ar kharap ta defference korar.Amio je fashion korina ta kintu na kintu nijer shalinota bhongo jate na hoi sheidike kheyal rakhi,Era amar senior hoyeo eder moddhe ei bodh tuku ki ekhono ashe nai? Jotoi shikkhito hou,joto bhaloi universityte poro na keno ,tomer moddhe jodi nijer proti control e na thake,bhalomondho bichar korar khomotai na thake,shalinotai na thake tahole egula diye ki korba?Ami ekta kotha chele meye shobykei bolsi.tomer aj konona kono vabe tomer agamir sathe related.Kokhono emon kichu korba na jeno tomer aj nosto hoe jai,tahole future kintu emnei dhongsho,tomra obosshoi proper dresscode maintain kore cholba ar tomra eta bhalomoto jano je kono situation e kon dress pora uchit.John abraham beach suim suit pore pani theke uthe ashai oke kool dekhaise ter mane eta na ami o suimsuit pore ghurbo.Ekta kotha ase first impression is main impression ar aie impression process protidin e cholte thake karon protidin notun notun manusher sathe mishsi,,Ekta bhalo impression sharajibon e tik e thakbe jotodin tumi beche thako,ar aie impressioner 50% kaj kore dai tomer dresscode pattern,karon ete etao prokash pai tumi ki rokom mentalityr manush..Kauke nijer fashion na,nijer bektittotake prokash koro. v
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