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The eve-teasing and the bad boys

The term applies to the matter of teasing girls or women. The victim is the female and definitely the guilty act is committed by the male of a society. We all know that this act is so much disrespectful and also a crime according to the law of the country. With all due respect to the law I just want to present some questions to you guys so that I can understand the proper reason of eve-teasing. These questions are here because I have read many blogs and notes to find out the reasons of eve-teasing, not to understand how much worse is this! Scene 1: A girl is in a rickshaw that has been driven beside a crowd of bad boys. In the rickshaw there was also the mother with the girl. The boys shouted loudly to the girl and told something very bad and embarrassing words in front of her mother. The girl was wearing a very gentle school dress and they both were going back home after school. Her mother was so shocked about this and in the meantime the rickshaw passed that crowd, so nothing happened more. Scene 2: James and Jenny are brothers and sisters. One day they were at the largest shopping mall of the city. They were choosing some gifts so that they could celebrate their parent’s marriage anniversary. Jenny was laughing at James because of a funny gift on his hand. She pushed her brother on the shoulder a little and her brother was also enjoying the smell of the sister. Suddenly two bad boys were passing that gift shop and shouted loud, “do something more sexy couple, we are enjoying…”. James and Jenny were shocked at this and left the shop immediately. Scene 3: A boy was going to his college at morning. When he was on board there was only one seat left. After sometime a woman with a child came too. The boy felt sympathy and left the seat for the woman. This college boy was a very ordinary person among his friends and he felt shy in front of girls. But he liked to do what other extrovert boys like to do. He just borrowed a DVD of Naughty America from his friend yesterday. But he prefers to watch porn on his laptop closing the doors and windows of his room, so that no one can know. Anyway, the boy felt that his eyes are trying so hard to just have a glimpse of the woman he helped get the seat. She was a young pretty woman with red lips, wearing blue “Sharee” and red “blouse”. Almost 70% of her body from hip to head is visible quite nice. No need to mention that she was looking so sexy and hot in that dress and the boy was stirring in her. In the meantime the bus stopped and the boy left the bus. He could not forget the woman in that bus for the whole day. The most important fact was, the boy could not be brave enough to share this event with anyone of his college. He just felt that! Scene 4: Shila is an ordinary girl. She is a student of Dhaka University. She does not like the girl’s hostel. As she lives in Dhaka, she prefers to continue her study being at home instead of admitting herself into a hostel. She enjoys the Hindi Serial “Star Jalsa” so much. She loves one actress named “Sumi” from a Drama. One day all of Shila’s classmates decided to throw a class-party. Everyone came with gorgeous outfits. Shila wore a “sharee” just like the Sumi, the actress she likes most. When Shila entered into the party, the bad boys shouted loud saying “owww, shila ki jowanee…….”. Shila was embarrassed at this incident and left the class party after a while. Hey guys, are you still with me? If so, thank you. I invite you all to find the way to eve-teasing on the scenes I have described above. What do you find? Can you tell me the reasons? Bad boys are always bad, don’t you think? And girls are always the innocent, isn’t it? Do not be away from the main track. I started this conversation to find out the reason of eve-teasing not to know how much worse that is. Who is responsible? Only The bad boys?? What if the scene 1 is replaced by two pretty girls of the NSU instead of the mother-school girl? I am talking about two extrovert NSU girls wearing T-shirts on the rickshaw. How would you consider that situation? Are the bad boys needed to be considered bad in that case too? Yah, may be, because the girls should be called innocent whatever they try to express to the public eye, right? What is supposed to be done by the bad boys when a girl comes in front of the eyes with the tight attire so that reveals the curves of her body in really exposed way? What is supposed to be told by the drunk bad boys when a pretty girl in horny dress enters into the thirty-first-night-party? Assuming the bad boy in the scene 3 is not a gay, what should he think about the woman of his mother’s age at that sexy and exposed attire? Are the bad boys only responsible for nasty comments on the scene 2? When uncountable numbers of couples are busy in kissing or massaging male or female parts of bodies at the parks or lakes of the city, how can you differentiate between a dirty couple and brother-sister?

অনলাইনে ছড়িয়ে ছিটিয়ে থাকা কথা গুলোকেই সহজে জানবার সুবিধার জন্য একত্রিত করে আমাদের কথা । এখানে সংগৃহিত কথা গুলোর সত্ব (copyright) সম্পূর্ণভাবে সোর্স সাইটের লেখকের এবং আমাদের কথাতে প্রতিটা কথাতেই সোর্স সাইটের রেফারেন্স লিংক উধৃত আছে ।