অািম একজন েনট অনুসন্ধানী এবং অনলাইেনর মাধ্যেম েকিরয়ার গঠন করেত চাই। Wonderful Bangladesh অামার স্বেপ্নর ব্লগ অােম এই সাইটটােক সমৃদ্ধ করেত চাই। এ ব্লগ ৈতিরেত েয েকউ ইচ্ছা করেল অামােক তথ্য িদেয় সহায়তা করেত পােরন, ধন্যবাদ... A widely held notion about these two terms, love and marriage, says an approximation so significant that it could be presented almost as synonyms, such as twinning elements that go in the same direction, since, in addition, both seem to grow or appear from the same motivations to fill the same human needs. But as on countless occasions, many popular beliefs are only maintained through to record the presence of a myth, whether we are dealing with a superstition or with a cry of many citizens. Marriage is a social institution, and has nothing in common with love, nothing but the antagonism in which both may be involved. This does not eliminate the possibility, of course, there are couples who have agreed to such a union pervaded by the essence of love. But the justification for the holding of the convention responds to a kind of tax that is paid to close social circle that surrounds those who agree to enter into this event. Therefore, without denying that some marriages are based on love, and that it can also endure while they are married, we clarify that the same can happen without being subjected to the practice of that agreement or social contract. On the other hand, does not seem to support the hypothesis that love can be the result of marriage. It is a strange fact that the process of falling in love occurs once the couple is married. Rather, what is produced is but a kind of adjustment to a new stage that gradually undermines spontaneity that characterizes him loving feeling. Marriage is a financial arrangement which reveal the terms of a "life insurance" which also persist until the death of one of the two parties. Love is linked to the process of social change. Why fall in love and marry people?. The answer seems obvious at first glance. It seems only natural that a couple who falls in love want to make a home, and seek their personal and sexual relationship. However, this point of view, which seems self-evident, is actually quite rare. The idea of ​​romantic love did not spread in the West until quite recently, and has never existed in most other cultures. Only in modern times, love, marriage, and sexuality are considered intimately linked. In the Middle Ages and for centuries thereafter, people got married to perpetuate the possession of a title or property in the hands of the family, or to have children to work on the family farm. There were sex outside of marriage, but these did not interfere too much the feelings associated with love, as we understand it today. "The marriage may have the power to lead the horse to the water source, but could never make it drink."